you should have come over. but it's better that you didn't

Sometimes a man gets carried away,

When he feels like he should be having his fun

Much too blind to see the damage he's done

Sometimes a man must awake to find that, really,

He has no-one...
 
- Jeff Buckley
 
 
why do these words ring so true? How does one stumble upon that thought that's been lingering in one's head in life. Then it's like wow, I'm not alone in this. Someone beat me to the punch. A mixture of different things are swirling about my head right now.Makes me think that sometimes what we want isn't always the best for us. That the let downs help us in the long run over the temporary disappointments. It's hard to see at the time, real hard. I guess that's why people chalk it up to experience and that the quiet knowledge of having gone through it bring's about a certain solace within one's self.